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Do You Sound Just Like Your Mother?

Understand Your Vocal Influences

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Jessica Neighbor
Jul 17, 2024
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Your family of origin has a lasting impact on how you speak today.

Do you know what you sound like and why?

You likely emulated your family’s communication style as a child.

For instance, If you grew up in a quiet and reserved family, you likely communicated in a more subdued style:

“May I have the butter please?”

If you grew up in a loud and chaotic environment, you needed to be louder and more animated to be heard:

“Pass me the butter already!”

Some women say they feel doomed to sound like their relatives:

“I don’t want to sound just like my Mother!”

Let me reassure you that revisiting your early vocal influences will liberate you to choose how you want to sound moving forward.

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