Vulnerability is Your Superpower
A dedication, a pause, and a reflection
Speaking out can intensify our vulnerability. We feel exposed when we share our thoughts out loud, especially in formal settings, such as giving a work presentation or a speech at a ceremony. We feel singled out when we speak alone, and not always in a good way.
Our ancient ancestors learned that fitting in was safer than standing out. They also knew that it’s dangerous to have all eyes on them, to stand alone, and to feel uncertain- all elements of public speaking.
Your family of origin and upbringing may have reinforced your belief that it’s better to blend in than stand out. They may have rewarded you for following the script or shamed you for speaking out.
This primal instinct and conditioning explain why seven out of ten people dread public speaking and why many speeches often feel formulaic and predictable; humans seek approval and a sense of belonging.
So what if I told you that standing out could be your superpower?
When you craft a unique speec…
